How do I talk to my teenager about my cancer?

Talking with a teenager can be different from talking with a younger child. The article notes that teens are at a time in their lives when they're trying to break away and become more independent from their parents, so it helps to keep that in mind.

Try to get your teenager to talk about their feelings and ask questions. Tell them as much as they want to know about your cancer. You can also ask them for their opinions and, if possible, let them help you make decisions. Being included can help teens feel respected and less shut out.

Teens may also want to talk with other people in their lives. Friends can be a great source of support, especially those who also have a serious illness in their family. Other family members, teachers, coaches, and spiritual leaders can help too. Encourage your teenage children to talk about their fears and feelings with people they trust.

Like younger children, teens benefit from the reassuring messages the article suggests for children of all ages, such as knowing they didn't cause the cancer and that they'll be cared for. If your teen is struggling, your health care team can point you toward counseling and support resources.