How can I help someone with cancer?

There are many ways to help someone with cancer, and every situation is different—there isn't one way that works best. Caregivers may be family or friends, and people of different backgrounds give care in their own way.

According to the National Cancer Institute, caregiving may include:

• helping with day-to-day activities such as doctor visits or preparing food
• giving medicines or helping with physical therapy or other clinical tasks
• helping with tasks of daily living such as using the bathroom or bathing
• coordinating care and services from a distance by phone or email
• giving emotional and spiritual support

Even if you live far away, you can still give meaningful support as a problem-solver and care coordinator. Staying in touch with one or two key members of the care team, keeping a list of local people to call, organizing important paperwork, and using phone, email, or video can all help.

It also helps to understand your loved one's situation—knowing their type and stage of cancer and what to expect during treatment can make you feel more confident. And remember to care for yourself too: if you don't take care of yourself, you won't be able to take care of others. Sharing feelings, joining a support group, or seeing a counselor can help you cope.